https://feed.jamit.app/4c2c48c5-2105-c356-dc15-c95c2fe61ba8/rss https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how en 2026 Jamit “It’s Funny How” is a thought-provoking and humorous podcast hosted by Safa Kadiri. From personal experiences to cultural observations, each episode aims to create self-awareness and encourage critical thinking, challenging listeners to analyze their decision-making processes. Through banter and candid conversations, Safa and her guests shed light on the everyday challenges and concerns that impact our lives. Tune in to “It’s Funny How” for an engaging exploration of the issues that shape our society and a fresh perspective on the complexities of life. https://files.jamit.app/ipfs/bafybeiaw7aqww6sudximyvohkly3ogl6tu5axadpypvnl5qpduwrtnfhpa https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how 4c2c48c5-2105-c356-dc15-c95c2fe61ba8 no false Jamit Jamit originals@jamitnetwork.com https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/guys-cant-handle-rejection Alright, folks, let's dive into something we've all probably heard about or seen at some point – guys and rejection. It's like some kind of unsolved mystery. When a girl turns down a guy, some dudes just can't handle it, and things can take a nasty turn. It's time to unpack this phenomenon because, spoiler alert, it's not okay. So, here's the deal – rejection stings, right? Nobody likes to hear a "no." But here's where it gets messy. Some guys, when rejected, take it as a direct hit to their pride. It's like a personal attack, and they feel the need to retaliate. This can come in all sorts of forms, and none of them are pretty. Sometimes, they resort to hurtful words, trying to bring the girl down to make themselves feel better. It's like, "If I can't have you, I'll make sure no one else will want you either." And that's just plain mean. Then there are those who turn to humiliation. They might spread rumors, share personal stuff, or even try to embarrass the girl in public. It's as if they're saying, "You made me feel bad, so now I'll make you feel even worse." Seriously, guys, that's not how grown-ups should handle things. Now, you might wonder why this happens. Well, it's often because of the way some guys are raised. Society can feed this idea that they should never show vulnerability. They're taught that they always have to be in control and on top. So, when a girl turns them down, it's like their world is crashing, and they freak out. But here's the thing – this reaction isn't just uncool; it's also downright harmful. It creates a culture where girls might fear rejecting someone because they're afraid of the consequences. It also perpetuates this idea that guys can't show emotions or be sensitive, which is a lousy deal for everyone. The reality is that rejection is a part of life. It's not fun, but it's necessary. Not every connection or attraction will lead to a relationship, and that's perfectly fine. People have the right to say "no" without fearing retaliation. So, guys, let's do better. Rejection doesn't have to be the end of the world. It's an opportunity to grow, learn, and handle things gracefully. Instead of lashing out, let's respect each other's decisions and feelings, and maybe, just maybe, we can create a kinder and more understanding world. Tue, 31 Oct 2023 11:43:44 GMT Guys Can't Handle Rejection full 1 9 Jamit false Alright, folks, let's dive into something we've all probably heard about or seen at some point – guys and rejection. It's like some kind of unsolved mystery. When a girl turns down a guy, some dudes just can't handle it, and things can take a nasty turn. It's time to unpack this phenomenon because, spoiler alert, it's not okay. So, here's the deal – rejection stings, right? Nobody likes to hear a "no." But here's where it gets messy. Some guys, when rejected, take it as a direct hit to their pride. It's like a personal attack, and they feel the need to retaliate. This can come in all sorts of forms, and none of them are pretty. Sometimes, they resort to hurtful words, trying to bring the girl down to make themselves feel better. It's like, "If I can't have you, I'll make sure no one else will want you either." And that's just plain mean. Then there are those who turn to humiliation. They might spread rumors, share personal stuff, or even try to embarrass the girl in public. It's as if they're saying, "You made me feel bad, so now I'll make you feel even worse." Seriously, guys, that's not how grown-ups should handle things. Now, you might wonder why this happens. Well, it's often because of the way some guys are raised. Society can feed this idea that they should never show vulnerability. They're taught that they always have to be in control and on top. So, when a girl turns them down, it's like their world is crashing, and they freak out. But here's the thing – this reaction isn't just uncool; it's also downright harmful. It creates a culture where girls might fear rejecting someone because they're afraid of the consequences. It also perpetuates this idea that guys can't show emotions or be sensitive, which is a lousy deal for everyone. The reality is that rejection is a part of life. It's not fun, but it's necessary. Not every connection or attraction will lead to a relationship, and that's perfectly fine. People have the right to say "no" without fearing retaliation. So, guys, let's do better. Rejection doesn't have to be the end of the world. It's an opportunity to grow, learn, and handle things gracefully. Instead of lashing out, let's respect each other's decisions and feelings, and maybe, just maybe, we can create a kinder and more understanding world. 0xda2b9ec7fd1e8e56dc65fa12bd1bc92a9910ab0b8b74156f7192407dc61b9f9b 3365 1 9 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/people-shouldnt-get-busy-before-marriage-sex-and-cohabiting In today's episode, we're going to dive headfirst into the wild world of pre-marital intimacy. You know, that thing we don't talk about too much in polite society. It's like there's this unwritten "rule" that says couples have to get busy before they walk down the aisle. But, seriously, why is there so much hype around this, and what's with all the pressure? Throughout history, our ideas about romantic relationships have been influenced by society's expectations. One big expectation is that couples should get down and dirty before they tie the knot. It's like abstaining from sex while dating is considered some kind of weird exception to the rule. But why has this belief become so widespread, and what's it mean for those who choose a different path? This unspoken rule, shaped by society, often makes people feel like they should hop into the sack before marriage. It's all based on this idea that sex is a crucial part of a successful relationship and a way to test your compatibility. But guess what? This norm completely ignores the wide variety of values and beliefs that different people and cultures hold. The downside to this pressure is that it can lead people to compromise their principles, all because they feel like they have to follow the crowd. But, here's the deal: there's no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships, and everyone's pace should be respected. This pressure around pre-marital intimacy can also lead to people rushing into things, sometimes without really getting to know their partner. Let's not forget, intimacy should be based on genuine love, respect, and a mutual understanding. And you know what else doesn't help? The media and pop culture often make it seem like sex is the ultimate expression of love. So, we're bombarded with unrealistic expectations, and that just adds even more pressure to the mix. it's totally okay to spend time at your boyfriend or fiance's place to get a feel for what it's like to live together. A few visits here and there, cooking dinner together, maybe even trying to assemble that IKEA furniture – all part of the journey to domestic bliss. But here's the kicker – you don't have to jump into bed together. You can take things at your own pace and keep the intimacy dial where you're both comfortable. After all, what really matters is building a strong emotional connection and understanding each other on a deeper level. So, go ahead and enjoy the perks of living together without the pressure. So, to wrap it up, this whole unspoken "rule" that says couples need to get hot and heavy before marriage is just society's way of pushing its ideas on us. But here's the thing: every person's journey is unique, and healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, understanding, and emotional connection, not just what happens behind closed doors. It's time to ditch the pressure and embrace love and relationships on our own terms. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 Tue, 24 Oct 2023 11:01:24 GMT People Shouldn't Get ''busy'' Before Marriage (Sex & Cohabiting) full 1 1 Jamit true In today's episode, we're going to dive headfirst into the wild world of pre-marital intimacy. You know, that thing we don't talk about too much in polite society. It's like there's this unwritten "rule" that says couples have to get busy before they walk down the aisle. But, seriously, why is there so much hype around this, and what's with all the pressure? Throughout history, our ideas about romantic relationships have been influenced by society's expectations. One big expectation is that couples should get down and dirty before they tie the knot. It's like abstaining from sex while dating is considered some kind of weird exception to the rule. But why has this belief become so widespread, and what's it mean for those who choose a different path? This unspoken rule, shaped by society, often makes people feel like they should hop into the sack before marriage. It's all based on this idea that sex is a crucial part of a successful relationship and a way to test your compatibility. But guess what? This norm completely ignores the wide variety of values and beliefs that different people and cultures hold. The downside to this pressure is that it can lead people to compromise their principles, all because they feel like they have to follow the crowd. But, here's the deal: there's no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships, and everyone's pace should be respected. This pressure around pre-marital intimacy can also lead to people rushing into things, sometimes without really getting to know their partner. Let's not forget, intimacy should be based on genuine love, respect, and a mutual understanding. And you know what else doesn't help? The media and pop culture often make it seem like sex is the ultimate expression of love. So, we're bombarded with unrealistic expectations, and that just adds even more pressure to the mix. it's totally okay to spend time at your boyfriend or fiance's place to get a feel for what it's like to live together. A few visits here and there, cooking dinner together, maybe even trying to assemble that IKEA furniture – all part of the journey to domestic bliss. But here's the kicker – you don't have to jump into bed together. You can take things at your own pace and keep the intimacy dial where you're both comfortable. After all, what really matters is building a strong emotional connection and understanding each other on a deeper level. So, go ahead and enjoy the perks of living together without the pressure. So, to wrap it up, this whole unspoken "rule" that says couples need to get hot and heavy before marriage is just society's way of pushing its ideas on us. But here's the thing: every person's journey is unique, and healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, understanding, and emotional connection, not just what happens behind closed doors. It's time to ditch the pressure and embrace love and relationships on our own terms. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 0xfa2d2e3c98ada13eafe585dd1b4687577f5b7d9bf5a653e632e8fc78c34edb1c 1753 1 1 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/cheating-is-a-norm For a while now cheating has always been a norm and for goodness sake it has to it has to stoooppp! This episode discusses the unfortunate truth on how cheating is overlooked. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 Tue, 17 Oct 2023 09:40:05 GMT Cheating Is A Norm full 1 1 Jamit false For a while now cheating has always been a norm and for goodness sake it has to it has to stoooppp! This episode discusses the unfortunate truth on how cheating is overlooked. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 0xbf0017e156b5d0ac06727043055143f953d3891087310bec5aec64b9b8bd0c31 2174 1 1 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/body-shaming-is-a-flex It’s sad that body shaming comes as a reflex to some people. Body shaming is no joke. This episode talks about experiences and unfortunately instances when body shaming had occurred. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 Tue, 10 Oct 2023 19:58:26 GMT Body shaming is a Flex full 1 1 Jamit false It’s sad that body shaming comes as a reflex to some people. Body shaming is no joke. This episode talks about experiences and unfortunately instances when body shaming had occurred. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 0x80724d530ef3ddf0b783a5191505c4c70e72dd3286edb906f470d9821135ae47 1615 1 1 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/second-hand-embarrassment-hits-us-later You know those situations where you or someone you know does something so cringe-worthy that you actually feel it in your bones? Some people call it embarrassment by association, I like to call it secondhand embarrassment. This is a story time episode discussing, reading, and telling stories on secondhand embarrassments. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 Tue, 03 Oct 2023 08:49:40 GMT Second Hand Embarrassment Hits us Later full 1 5 Jamit false You know those situations where you or someone you know does something so cringe-worthy that you actually feel it in your bones? Some people call it embarrassment by association, I like to call it secondhand embarrassment. This is a story time episode discussing, reading, and telling stories on secondhand embarrassments. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 0x4cb0db23558ecedc8afc31c8a9a4319cbc0a923b648c0a5ff82f8d80faf635da 2024 secondhandembarrassment-itsfunnyhow-naijacomedy-viral 1 5 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/colorism Colorism exists! This episode talks on how Colorism is alive and thriving literally everywhere. Join Safa and her guest on this episode. You can also click the link below to be a part of the community; https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 Tue, 26 Sep 2023 10:48:52 GMT History Repeats Itself: Colorism full 4 1 Jamit false Colorism exists! This episode talks on how Colorism is alive and thriving literally everywhere. Join Safa and her guest on this episode. You can also click the link below to be a part of the community; https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 0x8d601501ee2d11ff12d1c09178a543a07e74d375f86fb8263e295fe745d5fcaf 1855 4 1 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/landlords-dont-rate-nigerian-women Are you a lady? Have you seen shege from a landlord? then you can certainly relate to this episode where Safa and her guest talk about the intricacies surrounding single ladies being shamed for choosing to live independently. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunnyhowpod and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 Mon, 18 Sep 2023 22:27:55 GMT Landlords Don't Rate Nigerian Women full 1 3 Jamit false Are you a lady? Have you seen shege from a landlord? then you can certainly relate to this episode where Safa and her guest talk about the intricacies surrounding single ladies being shamed for choosing to live independently. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunnyhowpod and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 0xc10929bbd0b464923052f10052067412c6ee12a26896a7b3b947901386279e2d 1815 1 3 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/its-funny-how-situationships-are-the-new-thing It's funny how couples these days refuse to define their relationships, it's always, "We're just talking", "hanging out", or "It's complicated". Join Safa as she talks about the new intricacy that is Situationships. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 19:06:32 GMT Situationships Are The New Thing full 1 3 Jamit false It's funny how couples these days refuse to define their relationships, it's always, "We're just talking", "hanging out", or "It's complicated". Join Safa as she talks about the new intricacy that is Situationships. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1 0xb5728c9270e8650b9cfdab7db72a87cf033cc07084503fa09ec40d86f07f75be 3439 situationships-entanglements-couplegoals 1 3 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/chivalry-is-dead A chat on how chivalry and overall decency in Gen Z is utterly deceased. These days, everyone is all about femininity and gender equality, talking about what a man can do, a woman can do better. This episode discusses the nuances surrounding chivalry in the twenty-first century. Fri, 11 Aug 2023 09:14:00 GMT Chivalry is Dead full 1 1 Jamit false A chat on how chivalry and overall decency in Gen Z is utterly deceased. These days, everyone is all about femininity and gender equality, talking about what a man can do, a woman can do better. This episode discusses the nuances surrounding chivalry in the twenty-first century. 0x53f3cfa6dff08892a74e5698c301ac74a118d7749a0c24471d842c7b61e05682 1958 chivalry,decency,gen-z 1 1 https://jamit.app/podcast/its-funny-how/introducing-its-funny-how It’s Funny How” is a thought-provoking and humorous podcast hosted by Safa. From personal experiences to cultural observations, each episode aims to create self-awareness and encourage critical thinking, challenging listeners to analyze their decision-making processes. Through banter and candid conversations, Safa and her guests shed light on the everyday challenges and concerns that impact our lives. Tune in to “It’s Funny How” for an engaging exploration of the issues that shape our society and a fresh perspective on the complexities of life Fri, 11 Aug 2023 09:08:06 GMT Introducing: It's Funny How trailer 1 1 Jamit false It’s Funny How” is a thought-provoking and humorous podcast hosted by Safa. From personal experiences to cultural observations, each episode aims to create self-awareness and encourage critical thinking, challenging listeners to analyze their decision-making processes. Through banter and candid conversations, Safa and her guests shed light on the everyday challenges and concerns that impact our lives. Tune in to “It’s Funny How” for an engaging exploration of the issues that shape our society and a fresh perspective on the complexities of life 0xc62ccf0a93e0f203e9ee8e9a3b2b6f6403fe69f116422c999de46eb5d9f16b08 75 1