Three Peas in A Podcast

What’s up with 2024? #2024wrappedup

Tue, 31 Dec 2024 11:53:40 GMT

The Peas sign out for 2024 and reflect on the year, Detty December and the everything in between 2024, as we still ask, what’s up with everything?

What’s Up With Gender Stereotypes? #aretheystillrelevant

Fri, 08 Nov 2024 08:50:24 GMT

It’s 2024 and we’re woke right? Gender is fluid and so should roles be. The Peas continue seeking answers on which gender is responsible for what, as we explore what’s up with explore what’s up with gender stereotypes…

What’s Up With The Chase? #hesaprincess

Fri, 25 Oct 2024 12:40:42 GMT

The Peas continue the relationship series with a discussion on the age old question: who does the chasing in relationships? We observed that with changing times, the pursuit may not be as static but ultimately give our personal views as we explore what’s up with the chase…

What’s Up With Flirting? #itsallinthedance

Fri, 11 Oct 2024 09:07:36 GMT

It started with a wink, then a giggle… a light tap on his shoulder… Taking a lighter note, the Peas talk about flirting, the signs, tips for what makes for enjoyable flirting, and when it goes wrong, as we explore what’s up with flirting.

What’s up with Matchmaking? #doyourduedilligence

Fri, 27 Sep 2024 10:50:21 GMT

In an era of intentional dating, matchmaking is a necessary tool. The Peas discuss matchmaking, the pitfalls and benefits and why it is gaining traction among older and more sophisticated daters, as we explore what’s up with matchmaking…

What’s up with Adulting and Hobbies? #joygivers

Fri, 13 Sep 2024 09:10:57 GMT

Reading, running, organizing, watching tv… the list is endless and the possibilities infinite. The Peas shine light on striking a balance between busy being adults and find joy through hobbies. We discuss the relevance of hobbies, burnout from hobbies, turning hobbies to moneymaking ventures, as we explore what’s up with adulting and hobbies…

What’s Up with Sexual Abuse? 2.0 #AProfessionalsPointOfView

Fri, 30 Aug 2024 10:21:45 GMT

While discussing this sensitive topic on our last episode, we determined it’s crucial to take this further and promised to invite a professional to provide some facts and figures. We delivered! Temitope Sarah Oyedija joined the Peas in the studio to share some insights gained from her work with the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (LSDSVA). She took us on a journey of evidence, false accusations, legal reforms, awareness and sensitization projects and support systems for survivors, further helping us to unravel what’s up with sexual abuse…

What’s Up with Sexual Abuse: Should the Accuser Always Be Believed First? #BelievingSurvivors #MoreGoodThanHarm

Fri, 16 Aug 2024 10:02:39 GMT

In a world where the narratives around sexual abuse are increasingly in the spotlight, we delve into one of the most complex and contentious questions: should the accuser always be believed first? The Peas tackle this sensitive topic by exploring the historical reasons for believing survivors and the profound impact disbelief can have on their lives. We also examine the difficulty with gathering the evidence required in legal proceedings, the reality of false accusations, as we navigate the delicate balance between advocating for justice and ensuring support for the victim.

What’s Up With Workplace Culture And Generational Shifts? #worksmartnothard

Fri, 02 Aug 2024 11:17:28 GMT

We’ve all complained about that defiant GenZ at work, but are they really defiant or changing the future of work? On this episode, the Peas explore what defines workplace culture and how the different generations bring their perceptions and values to influence the workplace, as we find out what’s up with workplace culture…

What’s Up with Jealousy? #AmIaWitch?

Fri, 19 Jul 2024 09:49:35 GMT

We all pepper and are peppered every now and then but when does it get out of hand? On this episode, the Peas discuss jealousy and the place of envy in growth, innovation and human relationships. The Peas explore their own moments of jealousy, how they react and make recommendations on how to handle envy in a world of inequality, as we explore what’s up with jealousy…

What’s Up with Millennial Divorce? #TillDivorceDoUsPart?

Fri, 05 Jul 2024 12:39:13 GMT

Are boomers averse to happiness or are millennials just not tough enough for marriage? On this episode, the Peas debate marriage and what the deal breakers are to this age-long institution if any. We discuss the generational differences in our approach and willingness as millennials to stick through the good, but more importantly the bad and the ugly our spouses bring. We only just cracked the surface as we pondered, What’s Up With Millenial Divorce…”

What’s Up With The Economy? #letthepeoplebreef

Fri, 21 Jun 2024 19:29:59 GMT

Inflation they say? The Peas echo the groaning of Nigerians with the downward turn the economy has taken. We try to grapple with the plight of the common man, as we try to understand what’s up with economy.

What’s Up With 2024?

Fri, 07 Jun 2024 14:30:37 GMT

We’re back peas! After a long hiatus, we’re back and ready to talk about everything and anything. Today, the Peas are catching up on life since the last time we recorded, as we dive into a new season where we continue to explore what’s up with everything.

Where Did 2023 Go? #wecamewesawwesignedout

Fri, 05 Jan 2024 14:48:51 GMT

On this episode, the Peas reflect on the year gone and their goals and dreams for 2024. It’s our collective hope that it would be an easy year for all our Peanuts. Till next season, we’ll continue to figure out what’s up with everything….

What’s Up With Japa?

Fri, 22 Dec 2023 14:22:59 GMT

The three peas explore the vacuum that the recent mass exodus of young people to developed countries is creating. Families being forced to communicate via electronic means and friends losing touch with each other is becoming a major cause for concern. Join the three peas as they navigate what’s up with japa… #itsjapaseason

What’s Up With Friendship Breakups?

Fri, 08 Dec 2023 12:12:53 GMT

Most people centre breakups around romantic relationships but friendship breakups hit hard as well. When our friends whom we’ve built solid relationships with for many years decide to abandon us, it does leave a hole big enough to form a lasting empty impression. Join the three peas as they navigate their journey through friendship breakups and how to find peace with it.

What's up with Reality TV Shows? #ToWatchorNotToWatch

Sun, 26 Nov 2023 16:25:31 GMT

On this episode, the Peas dissect reality TV shows, with a particular focus on The Real Housewives of Lagos. From the glamour to the drama, from lavish lifestyles to interpersonal conflicts, the peas discuss the impact of reality shows on societal perceptions, with the hope of understanding what drives the power dynamics, friendships, and love stories that are the hallmark of these shows. Join us to delve into this enthralling piece of entertainment as we explore what's up with reality TV.

What’s Up With Transactional Relationships? #youscratchmybackiscratchyours

Fri, 10 Nov 2023 11:53:58 GMT

Are we all just sowing good deeds so that others constantly owe us in the future? The Peas discuss relationships from the context of give and take. We try to find understanding of the common currency that binds all relationships, as we figure out, what’s up with transactional relationships…

What’s Up with Reproductive Health? #myovariesarekicking

Fri, 27 Oct 2023 10:51:25 GMT

Knowledge is power and ignorance is not bliss when it comes to your reproductive health. The Peas invite a reproductive health expert to discuss certain myths and counter them with facts. We also discuss recommended tests and vaccines along with their age triggers, as we explore what’s up with reproductive health…

What’s Up with Gender Roles? #dontparentyourpartner

Fri, 13 Oct 2023 10:57:23 GMT

Who changes the lightbulb or cooks the meals? The age long debate continues. The Peas discuss a topic that never seems to have an end in sight: gender roles. From romantic relationships and marriages to workplace dynamics, we decide that the best way to balance the tug-of-war is to be self aware, and when in a relationship, agree on what works for both of you. Using our personal yardsticks, we explore what’s up with gender…

What’s Up with Exes? #somethingfishygoinghere

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 06:32:24 GMT

We all have exes but some folks hold on to theirs like their next-es. On the first episode with a guest, the Peas explore the titillating reality of maintaining relationships with a past lover. While we recognize there is nothing wrong per se, we question whether it’s expedient as discuss boundaries, brow-raising bonds, what happens where kids are involved, as we figure out what’s up with exes…

What’s Up with Career Burnout and Breaks? #chooseyourself

Fri, 22 Sep 2023 11:00:29 GMT

Work never finishes but energy dwindles and burnout is real. The Peas explore prolonged mental fatigue from work a.k.a. burnout. One Pea let’s us in on her year-plus career break and the lessons learned during her time away from work. We also make recommendations for dealing with internal and external career pressures, as we explore what’s up with career burnout and breaks…

What’s Up with Career Burnout and Breaks? #chooseyourself

Fri, 22 Sep 2023 11:00:29 GMT

What's Up With September #Wherehastimegone

Fri, 15 Sep 2023 03:17:33 GMT

The Peas are back from season 1 break to finish the year with a bang! Taking it light and easy, the peas reflect on the last season and their time while on break. in our usual fashion, we share a couple of stories as we explore how did 2023 fly by and what's up with September.

What's Up with Masculinity? #MenCanCryToo

Fri, 11 Aug 2023 05:55:01 GMT

A man should be strong, ambitious, and show no emotions. Right?

On This episode, the peas explore new frontiers by discussing masculinity. We try to find a common understanding and ultimately agree that we could not possibly know it all. we however discuss those unappealing traits associated with 'masculinity' that we feel have no business existing and offer female tips on how men can stay masculine while being free of toxicity, as we explore what's up with masculinity.

What’s Up with the Love of Money and Those Who’ve Got It?* #malegroupies

Fri, 28 Jul 2023 13:40:49 GMT

The good book says the love of money is the root of all evil.

The Peas delve into the obsession with money and why people worship others with money. We explore how society enables certain conduct(s) of the wealthy, and of course we tell a story (or 3) on our experiences and observations with new money folks, as we explore what’s up with the love of money…”

What’s Up with Trauma? #ThereIsHealingInSpeakingUp

Fri, 14 Jul 2023 05:15:02 GMT

We all have something that triggers and makes us want to hide, run or cry. That’s trauma.The Peas get vulnerable as they talk about their personal traumas and the impact on their lives, as well as their coping mechanisms, as they explore what’s up with trauma….

What’s Up With Male and Female Friendships? #SmashorPass

Fri, 30 Jun 2023 05:00:03 GMT

Boy meets girl. They like each other but decide to just be friends. Why? It’s a tale as old as existence.
On this episode, the Peas talk about male and female friendships and whether the raise brows. We nitpick whether they are possible or a fallacy, how to transition when one party gets into a romantic relationship. Of course share our opinions through juicy personal stories as we figure out what’s up with male and female friendships…

What’s Up With Breakups? #AvoidRandyMen

Sat, 17 Jun 2023 11:12:34 GMT

It must have been love; but it’s over now… We’ve all been there. Crying. Binge eating. Wondering if the world is coming to an end. Breakups.
The Peas explore their breakup experiences, from physical reactions to the mental gymnastics of deciding who’s to blame for the death of the relationship. The episode wraps up with one of the Peas giving us the tea on men to avoid when looking for true love; and you can definitely tell those tips were from the heart as we tried to figure out what’s up with breakups…

What’s Up With Boundaries? #DontBurstMyBubble

Fri, 02 Jun 2023 10:50:00 GMT

You’re in my space. You’ve crossed the line. You said what??? Boundaries.
The Peas sit down to explore the relevance of boundaries in communal living, after all, no man is an island. On this episode, we establish that boundaries exist on a continuum, explore some shocking instances where boundaries were severely crossed, like in the workplace and make a gender-based assessment, as we figure out what’s up with boundaries…

What’s up with Adult Friendships?” #areasonseasonlesson

Fri, 19 May 2023 12:41:20 GMT

Imposter syndrome, fitting in, and disappointments… some of the things we fear or experience as we chart friendships in adulthood.
The Peas explore the blessings and hardships faced in maintaining friendships as grownups. We talk about labels, standards, expectations, comfort zones and triggers, as we try to figure out what’s up with adult friendships..

What’s up with Parenting?” #JoywithNoJoy

Fri, 05 May 2023 21:26:30 GMT

We all had the same childhood... apparently.
The Peas go down memory lane reflecting on parenting/discipline moments from their childhood that left a mark (visible and otherwise) and exploring the very obvious differences in parenting then versus now. On this episode, they discuss the importance- if any- of the belief that "it takes a village to raise a child," and ultimately try to figure out what's up with parenting...

What’s up with Dating?

Fri, 21 Apr 2023 13:48:06 GMT

#DatingAppsToTheRescue
Finding love can feel like chasing waterfalls but we can’t always stick to the rivers and the lakes that we’re used to.

The Peas are back with one of the favorite young adult topics: Dating. They discuss new-age dating on the apps, good (and not so good) strategies, love languages and more, as the curious Peas try to figure out what's up with dating...

The Three Peas in this Podcast: #ItsDefinitelyNotaThreesome”

Fri, 07 Apr 2023 11:00:20 GMT

We’re introduced to the three peas: Adventurous Ada, Spontaneous Simi and Tenacious Tewo as they tell you how “Three Peas in a Podcast” came to be.
From a flog and shrug incident, to an African road trip during the pandemic and the ultimate invitation that got the ball rolling, the trio establish their bond as they reel you in on their journey exploring what’s up with everything…

Introducing: Three Peas In A Pod

Fri, 31 Mar 2023 12:55:19 GMT

Ever wondered what's up with weight, marriage, kids, love, friendship, and money?
We're ‘Three Peas in a Podcast’ and we wanna know what's up with everything and we mean everythingggggg!!!!
Your hosts are adventurous Ada, spontaneous Simi and tenacious Tewo and we ask that you join us as we figure things out.
You can find us on Apple, Spotify, Jamit and Instagram @threepeasinapodcast_